做男人，只要你不出轨，别人就会认为你“没有原则性的大问题”。
就算你出轨，你老婆也有一定机率会选择原谅，谁叫这是“大多数男人都会犯的错”。
哪怕你再邋遢，几天不洗澡，再无所事事打游戏，每天抱着手机拼命刷，不管孩子不管家务，没有浪漫没有情调，没有呵护没有照料。只要你不出轨，这些都TM不算原则性问题。
做女人。你要敢给男人戴绿帽，就等着被口诛笔伐浸猪笼吧。绿帽只是原则性问题之一。
你对孩子没耐心？你不是个好母亲。你爱花钱？败家臭娘们。你家务活不好？你还算个女的？你埋怨公婆？该死。你不会温柔撒娇？男人婆没人要。你抱怨老公冷漠不关心？那是你没有自己的生活。你怎么就不能充实自己，多找点事情做，不要成天想着男人！
这些都是专属女人的原则性问题。
按照你们的逻辑，女人自己一个人生活得充充实实，精精彩彩，财务独立，思想独立，还他妈给自己整个男人做什么？多出一个人，伺候他全天，做饭洗衣带孩子，还不能指望他对你有任何关心照料和帮助。犯贱？
尤其在中国，优秀男女资源的极大不平衡，是导致婚姻不幸的关键。
美丽、优秀、独立、上进的女性太多。很多人八项全能，事业家庭面面开花——羡慕吗？背后的辛苦劳累常人难以想象。
男人？很多连最基本的干净、上进、有责任心都不具备。小时候等着妈妈洗袜子，长大了把臭袜子甩给媳妇。还说不得抱怨不得，得像婴儿一样哄着，做屁大点事，都要鼓励：“亲爱的你真乖，你真厉害，今天自己洗了一只袜子呢，棒棒哒。”
再来说说那些有上进心的，这些人好像又永远无法在家庭和事业中找到平衡。加班一定要疯狂，喝酒一定要够猛，谁不回家谁骄傲。
丧偶式婚姻，据说是最稳固最幸福的，因为女人跟孩子过，眼不见心不烦。
对女人来说，结婚要慎重。如果你足够独立，你真的不需要一个男人来成就自己。如果结婚了，我也不得不同意大多数人的说法，换一个并不会比现在更好，因为：
这是共性问题。
还有更多更差的，吃喝嫖赌抽，坑蒙拐骗偷，跟这些人一比，你身边的那个是不是特别像白马王子？
总之一切问题，都是你自身的问题，谁叫你要求那么高！把底线拉低，一切都不再是问题。
但是再怎样，你也不能放纵对自己的要求哦，因为所有人都殷切地盼望着你，做个好员工，好儿媳，好妻子，好女儿，好妈妈！！！
Early in the morning I put breakfast at your table
And make sure that your coffee has its sugar and cream
Your eggs are over easy, your toast done lightly
All that’s missing is your morning kiss
That used to greet me
Now you say the juice is sour
It used to be so sweet
And I can’t help but to wonder
If you’re talking 'bout me
We don’t talk the way we used to talk
It’s hurting so deep
I’ve got my pride
I will not cry
But it’s making me weak
I’m not your Superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional hugs
As a token of love from you to me
Oh, baby
I fought my way through the rush hour
Trying to make it home just for you
I want to make sure that your dinner will be waiting for you
But when you get there you just tell me
You’re not hungry at all
You said you’d rather read the paper
And you don’t want to talk
You’d like to think I’m just crazy
When I say that you’ve changed
I’m convinced I know the problem
You don’t love me the same
You’re just going through the motions
And you’re not being fair
I’ve got my pride
I will not cry
Still I can’t help but care
I’m not your Superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional hugs
As a token of love from you to me
I’m not your Superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional hugs
As a token of love from you to me
Ooh baby, look into the corners of your mind
I’ll always be there for you
Through good and bad times
But I can’t be that Superwoman that you want me to be
I’ll give my love, oh lasting love
If you’ll return love to me
I’m not your Superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional hugs
As a token of love from you to me
Ah ha, If you feel it in your heart
And you understand me
Stop right where you are
Everybody sing along with me
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I’m the kind of girl that can treat you so sweet
But you’ve got to realize that you’ve got to be sweeter to me, yeah
I need love
I need just your love
I’m not your Superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional hugs
As a token of love from you to me
